M T F & D T F

a monthly sex, love, and dating column where Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard chronicles the amorous goings-on she's fascinated by (particularly, her own).

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I Did Sex Work to Make Money—and Find Real Intimacy With Men


I Asked My Crushes Why They Won’t Sleep with Me

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The Ins and Outs of Topping as a Trans Girl

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Transgender Women Explain What It's Like When They Don't 'Look Trans'